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Shoegasm..Shoelove..Shoeoholic…Shoe ME!

February 10, 2011

2001
Mom: Tanu..we are going to the mall…get ready!
Me: *wears the comfy floaters* Ready! 😀
Mom: Oh lord! Why can’t you ever wear nice heels? They look so good..you are spoiling the look of your good clothes.
Me: *grunt* ugh! Heels are so not comfy Mom!!!!

2011
Me: Dammit! I don’t have space in my shoe wardrobe! Aaarrggh!

Yeah… that’s the story of my ‘Romance with the shoes‘. I was never born to love the gorgeous leather that adores the foot. I was never a lover of the beautiful designs and the slender heels. I was *that* girl who was happy in the comfortable Floaters! Yes yes! I know…! Blasphemy! But I confess… I did love my floaters..

But today..today is another story. Today I cannot live without admiring my Shoe collection..I cannot live without adoring the gorgeous heels and stilettos in the Shoe shop window. I sometimes do dream about hugging those gorgeous Brown Charles & Keith open-toes I acquired recently and caressing them lovingly. You must be thinking.. “what a freak!”, right? Well.. ‘Shoe’ me!

About 6 years ago, a ‘feminineness‘ came over me.. from a floater-wearing tomboy…I grew to be a skirt-loving, heels-adoring girl. It was a sudden transition and I realized I LOVED SHOES! That is when I entered a store and walked past the floaters and ‘comfortable’ section, straight towards the High Colorful Dynamic Heels section. I gaped at.. awed at… fell in love with the most beautiful looking black ankle-length boots! They fit me perfectly..they made me feel sexy! I was in Love… and this was just the beginning.

Currently the owner of 60 pairs of gorgeousness that sit prettily wrapped in my ‘shoe wardrobe‘, I am highly possessive about my shoes. Today if you take me to a Shoe store, be warned, a pair will be bought. “Oh! I don’t have the Grey closed ones with that silver bow..” “Darlingg…I need the closed shoes for formals..the open-toed ones are for dresses only“.. “Ma! I *need* those leopard prints..they just totally go with everything!!” [Note: Purely for Illustration Purposes]….
[Regains control] *clears throat* So.. not only do shoes make me feel ‘sexy‘, of course given that they gave me height! :P.. But they also make me feel extremely confident. I wear my gorgeous open-toed Black stilettos that have these flirtatious bows at the back, to work… and I am so ready to conquer the world! I wear my absolutely divine Red and Gold sandals with my dresses and I could not feel sexier!! I don my knee-length brown boots and I could kick some royal ass… 😛

Well… I could go on and on about my absolute passion for shoes…! But all I wanna say is..
Dear Shoe Darlings… you (collectively) have made me feel pretty, tall, gorgeous, sexy, lady-like, feminine, confident, loved, admired…and much more through these years. I promise to take care of you..always! Love, Tanu

PS: I Love You.

 

Judge Me Not!

October 12, 2010

I had a weird experience today. An acquaintance came up to me and asked, “Have you been to a temple?” A little shocked by the question, I gave a vehement “YES” as a reply. His mocking look and the next statement, got me thinking. “You, who drink and party so much, go to a temple?”

Why is it that people assume that if a girl wants to kick up her heels and have a glass of wine or dance the night away, cannot be a woman who is religious, celebrates all festivals with gusto and takes care of her home too? Why is it that a woman is considered ‘frisky‘ just because she likes to have a bit of fun in life? Is this a phenomenon, just amongst Indians or is it a global stigma? Why is it so difficult for men to imagine a woman be those 2 characters in 1?

I am the girl who likes to wear pretty clothes, nurse a glass of wine or Margarita and kick up a storm at a party. I am the woman who likes to celebrate all the festivals with complete dedication, go to temples and immerse myself in its holiness and take care of my home as if it were my child. I am the woman who sees myself 3 years down the line, having a baby and still having my night-outs of fun and frolic. What is wrong in that? It is surprising to hear men (most stigmas against women come from them, unfortunately) go, “oh! you cook? oh! you pray and go to the temple?” No honey, God never instructed me to quit drinking and having fun just so that I can pray to Him. No darlings, God never wanted me to lead a life of total abandonment just so that He can make his presence felt in my home. I believe, he exists next to me while I am dancing and sits next to me while I have my drink.

My mother, who I idolize, thinks I am That Woman. My Pati believes I am That Woman. I do not need any one else to judge me. Yet, somewhere the thought tugs my heart and I want to give explanation of my existence and my lifestyle.

If you got the answer, please enlighten me..because this ‘judging’ is beyond me.

Soul Food: Daddy’s Deli..

September 30, 2010

Comfort Food. Friendly ambiance.  Smiling hosts. County music in the background. Parsi Palate. Yes. That is how I would describe my experience at Daddy’s Deli. I know.. I know.. the name itself, makes you wanna sit in your living room while your dad stirs up some fabulous food. It serves the kind of food that makes you sigh with contentment. I had never tasted Parsi food before and had the chance of going to Daddy’s Deli on a balmy Saturday afternoon for lunch. Recounting my experience.

Daddy’s Deli is located on 12th Main, Indiranagar in Bangalore. Bangalore, as we all know, is a haven for people who have the love for the Cuisines of the World. Daddy’s Deli is another feather in its cap. Started almost a decade ago by Nozer and Zarine, was a cozy place in the by-lanes of  Richmond Town. Family, friends and friends of friends who knew of this joint were its customers. 4 years ago, they moved to Indiranagar and started a Service Apartment, of which, Daddy’s Deli was the diner, open for its old customers and the residents of the Service Apartment. Only about 2 year ago, did they open it up for public and there has been no looking back for them. They have done no advertisement, but trust me, just with word-of-mouth publicity they go houseful on weekends.

As I spoke to Zarine in her cozy office, gushing about the lovely meal I just had, I saw the passion in her and Nazor’s eyes. They were passionate about their food and they loved what they put on the table. Their Parsi recipes are hand-me-downs from aunts and mothers and patrons who have  loved a dish somewhere.  Says Zarine, “We are definitely sure of the fact that we don’t want to grow. We want to continue to remain cozy, homely and without advertisements/publicity. The essence of the place has to be maintained and a place loses its soul when it grows big.” Word. Zarine. Word.

S (the pati), A (the food-loving friend) and I set out on a Saturday afternoon in search for satisfying, belly-rubbing soul food. I remembered seeing Daddy’s Deli when I went to Corner House Ice Cream joint which is on the ground floor of the building. We took the left on 100 ft road and headed straight for Daddy’s Deli. As I entered the 1st floor joint, I soaked in the framed bird pictures, flower pots, trinkets picked up from flea markets or probably from their own home. The diner has about 7 tables and as we entered it was bustling with families gorging on mouth-watering dishes.

We took our seats at a table by the window, overlooking the main street. A friendly steward came to us with the menus. Not very exhaustive, you know the ones that confuse you, but well-laid out and enough dishes to choose from. One thing I noticed was the amount of Vegetarian varieties. Although Parsi food is typically non-vegetarian, they had an ample amount of veg options. So all you veg-lovers, distress not, you will love it too!

We started with ‘Kheema Na Patties’. They have an assortment of Wines and the one that rules the roost is their home-made wine. I ordered the Red. The boys had buttermilk. The Kheema Na Patties came. 3 large-fat-round Patties on the plate, crispy brown exterior, one cut through it, revealed the soft potato  and minced mutton inside.  One bite and the ‘mmms-ooohsa-aaah’ poured. The crispy golden brown exterior was crunchy. The minced meat was full of flavors and extremely aromatic. The light layer of mashed potatoes was the perfect complement to the heavily flavored Kheema (minced meat). The earthy tones of the Red Wine complimented the Kheema Patties perfectly.

For the main course, we had the traditional ‘Dhansak’, synonymous with Parsi food accompanied by Rice, Sali Murghi as a side dish and Rotlis. ‘Dhan’ means rice or lentils and ‘sak’ means vegetables. It is a combo meal. The dal was prepared with a mix of dals, vegetables, masals and mutton — all grounded and cooked to a paste, a very thick saucy paste, rich with flavors and aromas. The rice browned with caramelized onions and the dish was accompanied by Kachumber (grated salad). The dal was cooked to perfection, the flavor of the mutton was strong but I could definitely taste the dals (lentils) too. The best part about Dhansak was, with each bite, every element that went into the dish revealed itself, one at a time. All the elements came together to make that delectable, full-bodied thick gravy.

The Sali Murghi was an assortment of chicken, onions and raw spices cooked to perfection and topped with potato crisps. The chicken was succulent and juicy. The raw spices added the extra tartness to the dish. The best part was I tasted no heavy cream, no butter and no extra oil floated at the top. It was perfectly home-made, had all the aromas captured and had a soul to it. It was accompanied by Rotlis (parsi word for Chapatis/phulkas).

We ended our sumptuous meal with 2 servings of Malai Kulfi. Mind you, all their desserts are home-made. Every dish is made with the kind of passion you will find in your mother or even your grandma, as they whip up comfort food in their kitchens. The kulfi was rich and absolutely ‘irresistible’ as described by our steward. Strong flavors of coconut, malai (cream) and aromas of cinnamon flowed into our mouths as we took one bite after another.

Aah! That was one Meal that satiated not only our tastebuds but our minds too. My conclusion: Parsi food has the capability of not only working our palates but also making us think about the food as we eat.  It has been a week since I had that gorgeous Parsi meal and I can still feel the taste in my mouth. That is exactly what a cozy, soulful, passionate diner should do. Make you think and feel its food. Kudos to Daddy’s Deli for bringing the food-poet out of me.

PS: The place has the best Breakfast to offer. In her own words, Zarine says she got “the best waffles in Bangalore”. Come on, get up and go to Daddy’s Deli now. I recommend.

Rating (1-bleh; 2-Yeah,whatever; 3-mmmmm, naice; 4-Woah!awesome; 5-Fantabulously Yum)
Food: 5
Ambience: 4 1/2
Service: 4 1/2
Overall Rating: 4 1/2

Weekend Getaway: Doddamakali River Camp

September 8, 2010

Weekend Getaways. Aaah… it has a very liberating ring to it. In today’s world of crazy, fast-paced life, who does not wish for a ‘Weekend Getaway‘. They work as a Rechargers. Bangalore is one such city, with abundant destinations within 250kms range, that boast of “away from the city” experience. Between the 3 states (Kerala, Karnataka and Tamil Nadu) one can cover over 40 destinations, so heavenly and so gorgeous, that one comes back to the fast life, replenished and fresh!

The Pati and I decided to take one such trip after 3 months of grueling work schedule and crazy city life.  The destination chosen was Doddamakali Fishing & Nature Camp run by the Jungle Lodges & Resorts group. Jungle Lodges is known for their ‘in the wilderness‘ destinations. They have their camps and resorts set in locations which are virgin and in the wild. Doddamakali is Fishing & Nature Camp is about 116kms from Bangalore, on the banks of Cauvery river. It is one of the three fishing camps in the region — Galibore, Bheemeshwari and Doddamakali. While Bheemeshwari is very touristy, Doddamakali is further upstream and boasts of untouched and pristine beauty. This place is as remote, rugged and as primitive as it could get.

So Pati, 2 friends and I left at 5AM on a chilly Saturday morning. We bundled our-sleepy-selves in our trusted Hyundai i10 and set off for the destination, with maps and print-outs in hand. The route was extremely gorgeous.

  • Head towards the national park on Bannerghatta road.
  • Take the right heading towards NICE road.
  • Proceed around 7 KM on NICE and take the left to Kanakpura road.
  • Go on straight on NH-209 for around 80 KM. You will pass Kanakpura town.
  • Carry on towards Halaguru — Malavalli — Shimshapura Village
  • Go around 7 KM and you will see a board saying “Doddamkali Fishing Camp” and asking you to take a left. Follow the board’s directions.
  • Head another 8 KM and you will reach near the camp.

Of course the main camp is another 8kms away. It is all gravel path and there is practically ‘No Road’. We managed to go at a speed of 10kms/hr and it took about an hour to cover this distance. After about 6kms we caught a glimpse of Cauvery river. It was like a python making its way through ravines, lazily moving along, unaware of stress and burdens of the city. The sleep and the non-existent road pain went flying out of the window as we soaked up the flora, the fresh smell of flowers, the rugged landscape and the continuous hum of the birds.

View From the Campsite

And then, out of nowhere, we were staring at the Fishing Camp. It was well-hidden, protected and absolutely serene. We pulled our luggage out and walked up to the Gol Ghar – which is the camp’s meeting place of sorts. It is a round hut which is used for all meals, meeting other people from the camp and bonfire. Since we had arrived at 9AM, way early before check-in, we were pretty excited about using that time to enjoy the beauty of our surroundings. We were the first ones and chose the tents we wanted. We chose the 3 tents farthest from the main campsite, with mine facing the river directly. After settling in, we decided to get something to eat since we were famished. The people at the Camp were very hospitable and listened to all our wants and desires with a smile on their faces. Of course they got us most of the things we asked for too. After a sumptuous and extremely fulfilling breakfast of eggs & bread, we decided to explore the camp site.

The first thing that caught our eyes was the Volleyball Court. It brought out the boys in the grown up men. Of course they had forgotten how little stamina they had, so after 2 games and a lot of huffin n’ puffin, we moved to the river. The camp’s main attraction is easily the large Trampoline set up on the waters of the river. Instantly and instinctively we all wore our life-jackets and moved towards the trampoline. The 10-year old in all of us came to life and there was a lot of jumping and screaming for the next 2 hours. I tell you, it was the adrenaline rush of a lifetime!

Completely pooped out and a heavenly lunch later, we were off for an afternoon siesta. Of course it lasted till 6PM and by then it was time for a bonfire. There was a large group of Americans and British youngsters at the camp as well, so the evening was filled with music, impromptu singing, guitar sessions, passing around the beer, drinking the punch and the crackling bonfire. It was an evening of sharing experiences, cultures, traditions and just bonding. Definitely one of the best bonfire experiences I have had. Hell, we made them dance to Bollywood tunes! 😛

The next morning was a nature walk along the river, which was more like trekking up and down the rocky terrain. After a sumptuous breakfast that included Maggi (yay!), we were on the road again and on our way back to Bangalore.

It was the perfect ‘Weekend Getaway’, with a perfect blend of nature and fun. Jungle Lodges Resort has that perfect mix of Great Outdoors and Unlimited Fun. As I read somewhere and it kinda fit this vacations perfectly…

If You Come Home As Happy As You Leave, You Have Had A Good Vacation.

Well, the 4 of us did come back home with a smile on our faces and unlimited recounting of events of our ‘Weekend by the River‘.